/seconded on the wire connectors. You can order them from a couple of guys on the boards here or, if you only want a few, as you do, you can pick them up at most hardware stores, car parts stores or even Wal-Mart type places. They'll cost more per unit than buying them bulk from the sellers around here, but if you only need four, it will be cheaper.
And if you really want to learn to solder, find any old electronic gadgets laying around, rip them open and spend some time learning to solder and unsolder using them for practice. That way you can burn a few boards without destroying anything you want to keep.