I know this has been done a million times, but I'm hoping for some opinions. I have 4 kids.. Enough said!!

I am debating over oil based paint using original oil kilz primer tinted black and rustoleom satin black or Wilson- Art vertical laminate (thinner to clear 3/4 T-Molding with 3/4 MDF).
After searching.... Paint is easier to repair...Yet Laminate is stronger, but harder to repair. Considering I have 4 "Captain Destructos'" Any last thoughts? Either way I am planning to add at least a 4" diamond plate kick panel to the front and sides.
Please help. Kids can't wait to play (or should I say test the strength) of the cabinet!
