I'm new to woodworking or any kind of construction and I'm can't figure out how these carriage bolts are supposed to work just by looking at them. I'm using them to attatch my monitor shelf to the inside of the cabinet, as recommended by many of the examples I've seen. First, you obviously pre-drill a hole large enough for the bolt to slip through, right? There's a hex neck on these bolts, so I assume you're supposed to insert the bolt into the hole up to the neck, but leave the neck exposed so you can grab it with a wrench for tightening purposes. But that would mean the end result is that the head *and* the neck are sticking out of the hole when you're finished tightening. That can't be right, because I'm sure it would look pretty crappy. What am I not understanding?