1- and 2 - Go to the Installation section at
http://www.ultimarc.com/ipac2.html. There are pictures there.
3- The mame pinball games use player 1 buttons 1,2,3. left, ball, right. But you can configure these to anything buttons 6,7,8 if you want
4- How does the shift work? See IPAC FAQ, question "What is the "shift button"?" See IPAC Instructions for the default shift keys. You can program your own.
5- Quick connects - Buy them at radio shack or a local hardware store. Buy female .187 size, if you use 18,20 or 22 gauge wire. Heres a pic
http://tinyurl.com/54v5. buy a crimping tool also.
6- wire buy 18, 20 or 22 AWG wire at radioshack or hardware store.
7- J stick. If its like other joysticks, In a control panel, drill a 1-1/8" center hole for the JS shaft. Drill four 1/4" holes for the mounting bolts. Remove the Joystick Shaft and mount the Joystick base under the control panel. The joystick shaft goes through the black disc and through the control panel from the top. You don't secure the black disc at all, it should move freely when the joystick is moved