There's about a million ways to get the job done, from simple to complex.
But I think a good way is to find someone locally who can help. I would suggest contacting your local university and talk to an Electrical Engineering professor. There are probably students who need a project to work on. Controlling a radio telescope might be a decent project for an undergraduate interested in Digital Design or something like that.
Ham radio hobbiests may also be interested in this project and be willing to lend a hand and some design skill.
Failing that, the simplest way to make something swtich on and off via PC would be a a few resistors, a transistor and a relay hooked to a PC parallel port.
Here's a page on this:
http://ourworld.compuserve.com/homepages/Bill_Bowden/page6.htmThe pot control is a little more complex, but there are still a few ways to do it. If you have to drive a real pot that already is in a system, you could use a stepper motor. For this application, single or half stepping is probably perfectly adequate. You can get simple chips that take 2 digital inputs, one for direction and one to tell the motor to step. The output will drive the wires of the stepper with the correct voltages.