I looked up the product numbers you mentioned on molex.com.  The first looks like a 3x3 block of connectors.  The second is I guess the metal pin that goes into the housing.  So I'd be using a generic 9-pin block and only using 2 of the pins?  Well, if I'm doing THAT, maybe I can just use some of the stuff I already have.  There's some adapters leftover in my cab for connections I am not using, maybe one would fit the monitor connector...