You guys are working WAY too hard.
I built the werstlein box and used it in my cab. I had all the same thoughts about building a push button switch that you did, but then I was talking to one of the computer nerds at work about what I was doing and he told me to go into the computer inside my cabs bios, and look for a setting titled something like "power up on key-press".
Sure enough there was something like that in there, so I enabled that, and now whenever I push any button on my cab's control panel, it powers up the pc, the stereo in there, the lights, the sub, everything. It's so damn slick, and everybody who see's it cannot believe it!