but you said there the same thing? whats with the hint, hint, andy?
also, so they both have everything i need to wire a 2 person cp?
Just a feeble attempt to get Andy to lower his price a bit.

"Quick disconnects" and "push on connectors" are the same things. The two most common sizes are 1/4" and 3/16" -- in fact, in my last order from Happ, I got some Cherry microswitches with 1/4" and some with 3/16" connections on them. You'll want a bunch of each.
The wiring should be about 22 gauge or larger, IMHO. Some people here use smaller wire (25 gauge, for instance). I use 22 gauge for the positive side, 20 gauge for the ground side, since I daisy-chain the grounds.
If you have the crimping tool, get Peale's kit and save a few bucks.
-- Chris
P.S. If you're a real novice at wiring, I highly recommend you pick up Saint's book -- it has a good explanation of the fundamentals of wiring everything up.