1up is working on the last step of the spider for the bottom of the 49-way in order for the 49-way base to handle the heavier traon stick. i'm waiting till he gets this finalized, then i'm gonna get the homemade stick of his for 15 bucks, the base for 25, and some screws since someone striped mine, and they were rusty anyways. i'm using two since i'll already have two gpwiz-49's for my dual regular 49-ways, and so i'll use my dual tron handles for tron and for tank games. i could even make on gp 8 way and the other 4 way to play tron.
as for you and your situation, i would get your brother 1up's competition stick (still 15 bucks i think), and for yourself, get the 49-way.
how did the artwork on your panel look when you got it? i was thinking of scanning mine in order to dump it to the arcad artwork library. even though it's not an arcade game, i think people might stll want it.