Well the reason I was thinking DB9 is two-fold. One, I can hold the small project box on the cabinet using only the tension of the DB9 connection. It would be very easy to plug it in and out, and I wouldn't have to come up with a way of keeping it in place (ie. velcro.) And two, I was thinking of using the extra pins in the future for hooking up external devices, ie. adding a USB port to the front of the cabinet using 4 of the pins, or possibly adding stereo output and things like that. It would become more of a management port in the future. Just thinking ahead! thanks for all the good advice.
Okay, first off, I'm not really crazy about any of your ideas, but it's your cab.
If you use the coin returns, you avoid the project box altogether. Cheaper and cleaner solution.
If you want to add a USB port, the best way would be to flush mount a hub or one of those PC expansion slot connectors - The USB receptacle takes up less space than the DB-9 and looks cleaner.
For Stereo, I would either run it out the sides or back, or use a mini-headphone jack type connector.
Having said that, if you really want a flush DB-9, you probably need a router or at least a Dremel. I think there are templates for DB-9 cutouts on the web, or you might be able to trace the serial port cutouts on a motherboard backplate. (You might even be able to tape the backplate down and use it as a template/guide). If you can't find anything, trace around the DB-9 connector from the outside of the cab, and use the dreme/router to make the through-hole (just be careful the tool doesn't wallow/walk on you). Now put the connector through the hole on the inside of the panel, trace around the "ears" of the connector, and route out enough material that the connector will sit flush. (If you take too much out, you can probably stack washers on the low side(s) to push it back flush).