ReplayGain with Foobar or Winamp, then.
I know your collection is large, so this suggestion might just be useless, but you could just MP#Gain the albums that are loud. MP3Gain works well for its intended purpose and if you're REALLY careful about taking note of your changes to avoid clipping, but to use it on your ENTIRE collection is to me, asking for trouble somewhere, and it'll probably be one of those things where you won't notice the problem until you have a party and people are over, thereby making you look like a shmuck.
I did it on a 21-disc audiobook (MP3Gain) and my daughter was listening to it after I did that, and came in to tell me something was wrong with the audio - replayed it for me...everything else seemed nomal, but there was a rather loud passage and it sounded like a bad cassette tape in that section.
I can only imagine the issues with your several-hundred-disc collection

if you ran it on the entire thing at once!