That kit that Bob sells looks good.
As for your soldering skill, get a junk board from somewhere (doesn't matter really what kind, radio, anything) as long as it doesn't have a lot of surface mount stuff on it. Start unsoldering stuff off the board. get some paper clips (the small kind) and try soldering those on the board. It'll be an approximation, but should lend you some skill.
Until recently I had no skill either, and I'm certainly not in Ken's class (he could do a 4600 chassis blindfolded, with one arm, hanging upside down,and DEAD, I'm pretty sure) but with some practice I don't screw up nearly as often.
Remember, you want to heat the part you're soldering, not the solder itself!