Back up a second... I'm confused? Why do you think you need to solder?
Yeah, that wasn't my clearest spate of communication.
Many people here have clipped db25 cables and just used the ends. That makes perfect sense. Usually, this is in the context of a panel that fits into a control box where the cabling is hidden. However, my design is much more console-like: there is a central box (housing the IPAC and connected to the PC via USB) and a laptop-sized box for each player. The player box can accept interchangable panels. The player boxes are hooked to the central box using db25 cabling. The central box has 4 female ends (which connect to the IPAC/OPTIPAC) and each player box has 1 female end (which connects to, eventually, the controls on the panel).
For my design, the use of clipped cables presents two problems: I need much more of one end type than the other (female), cables are expensive (even off of ebay), and these cable ends, which are encased in say plastic, are problematic to mount flush with the side of a wood box (a mostly-asthetic concern, true).
So I went to Radio Shack. (I live in a medium-sized city which has no real alternative for electronic parts.) They have db25 connectors, male and female, available individually. The connectors appear mountable. They have crimp-type and solder-type. The crimp-type actually look like more trouble and less sturdy than the solder type. But I would need 8 of them, all fully soldered. That is a lot of trouble and expense--at least I think it is. About this time, I noticed my printer sharing switchbox has female db25s on it. I opened it up, and it is a very simple switching mechanism. All of the female connectors look like they are removable, and all are fully-wired with a good 4-5 inches of wiring. So I could disassemble this, use the parts, not have to solder or wire anything up myself. (Buying these switchboxes are more expensive than buying the individual connectors from Radio Shack, but less expensive than buying the connects and a bunch of soldering equipment.)
When I thought about disassembling the switchbox, I began to think: why even take the db25s off the box? Why not take the switch out of the box and put the IPAC in it? Then this would become the central box to which each of the player boxes would connect.