hey thx for helping out!
i already hooked the coin mech to the aux fan:
12v red cable to mechs 12v input
groundī black cable to mechīs black ground
the mechanism worked fine,
rejecting bad coins, taking my 20 euro cts everytime
then i tried to fit the diode between aux ground and coin ground, which might have been a bad idea...
on startup i heard two zaps, but everything kept running fine,
coin mech rejected the 20cts every now and then and i took the diode out.
hopefully i didnt break it somehow

im looking into your solution now !
what puzzles me is the ground lines and where along the coin mechs gound cable to connect the other grounds/diode.
it doesnt come natural to me as i dont know a lot about current flow.-)