Ehh. Why the Hate Bros? >.<
I dont understand why people make these things so personal. Someone posts something they love and are proud about... and yeah, a lot of people take offense to criticism. Especially if the thing was already being built. People react negatively, and you want to remember that aspect... yet, how many times has the 'friendly helper' been keen to put some jab-juice in their medicine?
The often bad attitudes, coupled with them taking it too personal when the said Op isnt jumping immediately or at all.. for the help... is the wrong attitude. Help should be genuine, and if its not accepted... then that should be fine. Allow them to enjoy or regret things as they intend to do. Most of us in this world have to learn the hard way. We do not appreciate being forced or told what to do... especially if there is a toxic attitude from the said truther. Also, your truth may not be his truth. Some prefer Arcade monitors... while others are fine with LCDs. Some care about looks.. and some prefer being able to play a larger variety of games... and could care less about how it looks.
When you choose to Invest your emotion into someone else's project... you again are setting yourself up for being hurt when they do not do or respond as you believe they should. You can be helpful, without having such an invested connection.
So the guy may brag.. maybe hes an Ego fueled Narcissist. I dont know... cause I really didnt know much about the guy. I just saw a guy who had a love of the games. So what. He decided to have someone build it... and that somehow offends others. Why? There are many things we choose that have others make for us. Especially if they do not have the time, energy, tools, workspace... nor care to partake in such a thing. This is that persons choice, and thats fine.
I cant tell you what the guy was like personally. And how do we know that his demeening post regarding his car... wasnt fueled by some jealous attitudes that were posted? But if so... it has no bearing on me and my life, nor you and yours. Let it go. How long do you have to hold the beat-down sticks? Dont you get tired of keeping hate and harsh feelings inside of yourselves? They are toxic to yourself. Detract from your own quality of life. Let it go.
Nobody here is perfect in this world. We have all made terrible mistakes.. and many of us have learned from them. Hopefully, others will eventually learn... and become more enlightened.
Its very different if someone has some negative personality traits.. that are more of an annoyance, than someone who is an outwardly poisonous Abuser... whom consistently spreads harm and negativity.
In such a case... then I can understand, and actions should be taken.
In the former... who cares. Let it go.
Focus on your own self betterment, and enjoyment of life.
This place should not be about judging differences. It should be about sharing shared Loves.
Edit:
Im going to add... that I personally have changed completely from when I was a child, to a teen.. and continue to further change for the better, every day that I can. My Narcissist mother was caught telling my EX a bunch of Bull that was not true about me... after we had broken up. After listening in at the door for about 30 min... I finally layed into her.. correcting her on everything.. and finally disowning and association with her since. She would hold every single action, word.. and attitude in her personal file cabinet... and act as if people never changed. Always able to full up the file, and continue to judge that person with this data... even though, that person is No longer the same person as before. Of course, it made her delight to gain attention to bash others with assumptions, negative judgements, and old stories. Trying to make herself and her own lack of self worth.. boosted. She was a bottomless pit however... and hurting and judging others unfairly, was just fine to her. (But dont you dare do it in return!)
This kind of Filecabinet mentality is very bad for people to have. Just because YOU do not change... does not mean others are the same. Allow forgiveness, understanding, and have compassion. Give some "wary but fair Bennefit of the Doubt" at times. Dont hold people to their past forever. Imagine if many of you were held to your pasts? I cant imagine everyone here as never done something horrible... and have since changed for the better.
And finally, Jealousy. Stop it. Its Toxic to you, and those around you.
I have plenty of collector friends.. who have far more than I could ever attain. Ive never held them with any sense of Jealousy. Im happy that they are happy. Im fine with what I have. Im glad to have made friends with them, and thankful they have allowed me to share the joys of their collections with me.
To feel Jealous, is to poison yourself, and to internally start to wreck that relationship bond that you might have had... and may never get.. due to that splitting wedge of negativity inside of yourself. Its internal weakness. Learn to spot it when it shows up, and shame it right out of your mind and heart.
Some of the richest people on this earth, are among the most unhappy.
Learn to be Content with what you have, and whom you are. That is where true wealth and happiness comes from.