I can't speak to any sound for EL Wire but with EL Panels the only noticeable sound comes through the inverter. I mounted my inverter in the back of the cabinet and can't hear anything.
This made me think of something which may be related, where high frequency sound is concerned. Old ears

I have a friend with a twenty-two year old son, who come over for party night on occasion. Whenever I have the arcade cabinet powered up (old school 27" RGB CRT monitor) he asks "what is that noise"? His father and I look at each other and shrug, as we don't hear anything, other than the fan from the projector and whatever happens to be playing on it at the time. So I turned off the CRT, thinking he can hear the flyback, and he tells me that was it.
So, short story long, high frequencies, like those coming from EL inverters, will be heard by some who have good hearing, especially the younger folks. Older ones, maybe not so much.