To be fair, a schematic would have done little good. A lesson on wiring and relay function might be more appropriate.
Not all relays controls the same way. Basic relay works like thus. Apply power, switch goes one way. Take away power, switch goes the other way. That is what is used in that post. But what if I pick up a latching relay? What then? The wiring and even the activating switch changes. One coil or two? Oops different circuit.
Personally, I would choose a latching relay because it bugs me a tiny bit knowing I'm losing electricity holding a relay closed when a simple pulse would do the trick. Odd thing considering I like CRTs so much.