I am really not gonna get anal about people not updating their thread title if the current status of the item is clear within the thread. Sure it is a courtesy, but not a big deal. The attention span of a B/S/T thread is a very short and then it slips off the radar very quickly if it is not bumped.
The two seconds it takes for the rare random viewer to click on the link and see the item is no longer wanted or it is sold is not enough to merit me caring. They probably would have clicked the link anyway.
I also think the state or province and city thing should not be mandatory, at least for small shippable things. Who cares if the joystick I buy is from Salt Lake City, Utah or Flint, Michigan? Shipping is the same.