Arghhh.... it really annoys me when i write a long reply, during which time i have been logged out, and the i cannot get to the text i wrote again, as it's blank when i click back back..
oh well, I will try a shorter version...
That video one looks cool, however not for the fainthearted. As a programmer from an Electronic Engineering background I could work it out, however seems rather daunting right now.
Arduino i heard of, then you have ShiftBrite Shield, whatever "pins of the Arduino need to be mapped to these PWM pins on the ShiftBrite. The Arduinoatmo Google Code site has some nice and efficient code to bitshift and use SPI" is, boblight, atmoWin, X11, Atmolight, and "boblightd talks to the serial interface on the Arduino over USB and listens for data from another program. In this case I'm using boblight-X11 - a program that will run on the current X11 session and grab images from X11, process them, and send the information to boblightd which will in turn process it into the proper protocol (atmo) and then send the data to the specified device."
so that seems fairly straightforward then...

Nep, yours looks like what i envisaged would be realistic to start with.
does ledwiz have a mic / sound input then?
can you do per game colour sequences?
I guess i shoudl research ledwiz and ledblinky some more, thanks for pointing me in a good direction.
are there any particular specifications i am looking for, or will any RGB LED strip do?
CoryBee, thanks for the video, i will defo save that for when I am retired / divorced, whichever is first ;-)
Thanks again guys,
Dave