losing weight the absolute slowest way possible,
I lost about 20lbs in a month, (I think it was closer to 3 weeks actually) by stopping my intake of
soda. I drank way too much of it. That in combination with my already low-fat and healthy diet, and basic exercise 3x a week... made quick work of the buldge. I went from a tight 36, to a comfy 32" pant size.
And I didnt have to do it with dangerous methods, such as depletion of needed nutrients, nor sending the
body into crisis mode.
which can consume a person's ability or purpose towards losing weight.
As stated, one Can lose weight fast, yet safely.
The problem with you is that you dont have any real WILLPOWER.
You dont have the will to look up correct health information.
You dont have the will to stop eating fatty Garbage in large quantities.
You dont have the will to take the reins.
You Blame others for your poor eating habits. (as in, blaming the Doc for the speed of safe un-doing)
You deflect obvious and sensible information.
You choose to ignore health concerns, in favor of keeping the same mindset and behavior, for an achievement you know Wont Last.
You also choose to be irresponsible, spreading unhealthy solutions, to others.
Will Power, is the decision to take control of yourself... rather than letting the body respond on its instincts and urges... and or bad-programming.
You also should look into daily meditations.
Meditation, is a person using his WILL, to CONTROL his mind/body/soul. You may try to think of a peaceful flowing stream.. and your mind does everything it can, to change and alter that image / vision... because its literally OUT-OF-CONTROL. Eventually, over time, you can gain & maintain control, with very little to no effort.
Meditation also builds a better connection to the Sub-Conscious mind. This leads to profound positive changes.
Our conscious mind deal with typical waking reality. The Sub-Conscious mind, does things like regulate breathing and heartbeat.. with no need for you to Consciously think about it.
However, the Subconscious mind is much more than just that. If you were in a loud and busy room of 30 people, and talking to a person next to you... your conscious mind will hear the person, and possibly little bits of others talking. But mostly, you tune out, and cant focus, on more than one conversation. They sub-c. mind however.. will hear almost all of the conversations... and it records and stores all that information... as well as: The smells, other sounds, details of the room / deco., and much more. If the Conscious mind were to try to focus on all of that... it would explode... which is another reason why the division exists.
However, the Sub.C. mind can be crippling. Your lifes experiences.. both negative and positive... actually PROGRAM the Suc.C. mind... leading it to do and act certain ways. Even with typical limited conscious control, the Sub.C. can often over-ride things... un-doing our attempts at change / progress.
In order to stop the negative running programs of the Sub.C ,and RE-Program yourself.. you have to get better access and "Conscious Control" over the Sub.C. mind. This is only achieved with seriously dedicated meditation efforts, over a certain period of time.
When you finally gain mastery of the deeper inner mind, emotions, and body... etc... you can begin to
make a positive change... and it will finally "stick". And the new Positive Sub.C. Programming... will then work for you.. making your Conscious waking life much much better.
Meditation wont for example... make you a good Guitar Player like Eddie Van Halen.. However, it may for example.. make you decided to work overtime at work... when you normally would decline... simply to gain the needed money for the Guitar, AMP, & Lessons you will need. Then, it will often lead you to be in the right places, at the right times... to meet up with the best people to help you progress in your learning. And all this again... without your real conscious efforts.
You will however, need to actually Consciously practice. The Sub.C. cant make the full jump for you. Only select few people can do this... usually due to brain abnormality and or damages. However, due to these talents being 'Thoughtless' ... there is little control over them. As well as the lacking control of other conscious things, such as communication and relationship abilities.
After you make a breakthrough with Meditation... eventually, you can cease its daily practice, and still retain its positive effects. The changes are pretty much permanent... and so kind of go through life in a sort of waking-meditative state. Much more calm, peaceful, at ease... and able to handle life a lot better. Other benefits, include better appreciation of things, being "content" or Happy most of the time... Less fearful / anxious, more conscious of situations.. leading to better communications and thus better positive relationships.
However, it all starts with desire to be better, and then actually putting forth real serious effort...
Its like a workout, for your Mind.
A quick note: That besides learning & practicing basic meditation(s)... If you want deeper more profound progress... you should also be learning and developing certain specialized breathing methods... Such as
Dan-Tian (lower abdominal) breathing. There are moving meditations as well.. but I suspect that those will take a much longer time to get the kind of internal progress that comes from shutting down the body / physical. You may wish to progress to these Qigong / Tai Chi moving meditations, after internal breakthrough.