I haven't had any trouble finding an IDE cable without a blocked pin. Sometimes you can remove the little piece of plastic that blocks the pin by using a needle (there's multiple grounds on the minipac, so even if the pin isn't wired, you just need to use a different pin for ground).
Also, most of the cables I've seen with blocked pins, the pin is in the middle, not key. If so, that pin isn't used on the mini-pac.
See photo:
http://i.ebayimg.com/00/$(KGrHqJ,!iYE1MHyVsZsBNZkDh3Ps!~~0_3.JPG
I brought 100 cables off ebay a while back, so it's possible that it's harder to find one without any blocked pins, but like I say, it's usually not key that's blocked, and so shouldn't be an issue.
I find the mini-pac much easier to wire. If you are only building 1 cabinet, then it's not as much of an advantage. However, I find even if you just plan on building one, you'll end up building more; either for yourself or for friends.