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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #80 on: August 11, 2010, 05:49:15 am »
I'm going to see her tomorrow guys... I know I'm an idiot for not hearing any of you guys out. You guys have said some very good advice, you're more than just arcade nerds!!! Some of you are very supportive while others hmmm... well I'm going to see her tomorrow, talk to her in person. I really don't know why all of this is happening... It's been going on and off since March and still this kind of stuff happens. I really don't understand why guys... why is this so hard? I STILL know I'm an idiot...

Don't worry mate, most of us have been there. I promise you, when you meet someone else (and make an effort too, don't just sit around moping) it'll all become clear. You'll still never understand teh wimmings, but it won't hurt as much...


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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #81 on: August 11, 2010, 09:24:24 am »
I'm going to see her tomorrow guys... I know I'm an idiot for not hearing any of you guys out. You guys have said some very good advice, you're more than just arcade nerds!!! Some of you are very supportive while others hmmm... well I'm going to see her tomorrow, talk to her in person. I really don't know why all of this is happening... It's been going on and off since March and still this kind of stuff happens. I really don't understand why guys... why is this so hard? I STILL know I'm an idiot...

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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #82 on: August 11, 2010, 09:32:14 am »
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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #83 on: August 11, 2010, 11:27:08 am »
Successful people think long term. You Newman, are thinking short term.
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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #84 on: August 11, 2010, 11:56:35 am »
Since everyone's advice is being ignored, perhaps some reverse psychology will work?

Newman, you should totally get back together with her and ask her to marry you.  She will completely change once that happens and she will never freak out on you or randomly break down into tears for no apparent reason ever again.  Good luck!

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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #85 on: August 11, 2010, 12:29:14 pm »
Dude !

You might as well hook back up with the girl and let her break your heart 3 or 4 more times.

This is classic logic versus emotion stuff

You KNOW in your mind this is a bad idea

BUT

You FEEL in your heart she is the one for you...

Trust me your mind is going to lose this one... it always does.. at least until you realize you can get by a day without her... then a week without her... then a month etc etc etc

But that is not going to happen as long as she wants to get in touch with you and can get in touch with you....

If it was me I would tell all my friends not to tell me that she wants to see me, and I would change my phone number... and I would get a new activity to do... for me it was cycling and Aikido

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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #86 on: August 11, 2010, 01:25:00 pm »
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I miss the days when few people had cellphones and, because we were a minority, were more conscious of our manners.

Agreed, we got by just fine before cell phones on dates.  To me its pretty rude to answer a cell phone in the following scenarios:

- a date with spouse/partner. Notice the word date...going to Ikea doesn't count, answer the phone...taking partner/spouse to the movies or dinner? Hell no...voicemail that call.
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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #87 on: August 11, 2010, 05:08:27 pm »
Newman, like most of the guys on here have mentioned, we have all been there one way or another, myself included. The chick that sort of did the same thing to me was SUPER hot too, yeah that made it hard(haha get it?) but still, youre obviously young, and there are other chicks. The hotness wears off too if the chick acts like a female dog. Dude, is she bi-polar or something? You made it seems like she cries at the drop of a hat. No man wants to handle a girl that cries incessantly. Thats no fun at all. Like you mentioned the point before, youre trying to FORGET her, but LEARN from her. LEARN what you DONT want... LEARN what NOT to do. When this happened to me I found myself doing what some of these fellow guys mentioned. CUT HER OFF COMPLETELY. I did. One of the best things I ever did. Guys and girls arent supposed to be friends unless they are banging each other. Seriously, end of story. Why the hell is your best friends GF calling YOU? Want to know how many times my best friends GF has called me before!? ZERO.

Also, keep busy. And CUT HER OFF. Dont be friends, and dont call her, erase her number, and forget about her in the sense of wanting to be with her. Find something to focus on that keeps your mind off of her. Me, I lifted weights and played my drums. Thats my stress reliever. Do something productive, and dont do something that you guys did together cause that will just remind you of her. Not only am I a better drummer, but Im in good shape as well. *flex*

Furthermore, man up. I know thats kind of a jerky thing to say, but cmon. The idea of a real man has diminished in todays society. John Wayne is probably rolling over in his grave with all the stuff that "men" today do. Act like this chick doesnt mean anything to you. But you cant just act, you have to believe it. Sometimes you gotta be what others might think to be a "jerk", not calling back, being TOO polite etc... You dont want a girl to walk all over you, thats a sad spectacle to witness, let anone be a victim of. Chicks dig guys with confidence, and you need to be confident. There are a bunch of things you can do to bolster your confidence, but Im not going to list them here.

And I know Im probably going to get flak for it from somebody....but jesus god man dont answer the damn phone when youre on a date!!! I dont care who it is!!! Not even if your grandma fell down the stairs! Whats more important, you going snorklin for clams, or your gradmas hip!?!? :dizzy:
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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #88 on: August 11, 2010, 05:34:41 pm »
marry her and have her babies.. you will be a happy man  :applaud:

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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #89 on: August 11, 2010, 06:25:42 pm »
In the eternal words of the Godfather of Soul, "hit it and quit". ;)

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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #90 on: August 11, 2010, 06:43:28 pm »
In the eternal words of the Godfather of Soul, "hit it and quit". ;)
   
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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #91 on: August 11, 2010, 08:51:02 pm »
In the eternal words of the Godfather of Soul, "hit it and quit". ;)
   
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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #92 on: August 12, 2010, 02:57:57 am »
I would say let's post her pic here, and then we'll help you decide if she's good enough to go thru that
"hit it and quit" strategy...

lol.... ;D
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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #93 on: August 12, 2010, 11:57:57 am »
My advice, and I really mean this, is stop being a [kitty cat] (the autocensor for this word is too ambiguous).  Women aren't attracted to weakness.  When people tell you to man up and grow a pair it's not to tell you to go through life not caring, it's advice TO HELP YOU GET THE GIRL!!!
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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #94 on: August 12, 2010, 12:06:21 pm »
A different girl though, cause man, she cries too damn much. Unless she is TOO fine, then ok, put up with it. For a little bit. Or tell her you will give her something to cry about! Not smacking her, idiot, Im talking about the poop shoot! HAHAHAHA!  :laugh2:
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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #95 on: August 12, 2010, 02:03:55 pm »
A different girl though, cause man, she cries too damn much. Unless she is TOO fine, then ok, put up with it. For a little bit. Or tell her you will give her something to cry about! Not smacking her, idiot, Im talking about the poop shoot! HAHAHAHA!  :laugh2:
 
Man you're right about the crying part... she cries a lot!   
I would say let's post her pic here, and then we'll help you decide if she's good enough to go thru that
"hit it and quit" strategy...

lol.... ;D
   
I don't think stealing facebook photos of her and posting them here is not allowed... or is it???

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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #96 on: August 12, 2010, 02:25:21 pm »
A different girl though, cause man, she cries too damn much. Unless she is TOO fine, then ok, put up with it. For a little bit. Or tell her you will give her something to cry about! Not smacking her, idiot, Im talking about the poop shoot! HAHAHAHA!  :laugh2:
 
Man you're right about the crying part... she cries a lot!   
I would say let's post her pic here, and then we'll help you decide if she's good enough to go thru that
"hit it and quit" strategy...

lol.... ;D
   
I don't think stealing facebook photos of her and posting them here is not allowed... or is it???

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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #97 on: August 12, 2010, 02:30:22 pm »
I would say let's post her pic here, and then we'll help you decide if she's good enough to go thru that
"hit it and quit" strategy...

lol.... ;D

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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #98 on: August 12, 2010, 04:02:38 pm »
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Re: How to forget someone? Emergency!!!
« Reply #99 on: August 16, 2010, 12:10:32 am »
Well I don't think she feels anything for me so yeah she's a ---smurfette---! And you guys are awesome! And well... I guess it's time to actually forget...
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