I followed the two flying leads from the old flyback and ensured the new ones went the same place, the heavier one went to the connector that plugs into the neck (i'm guessing this is the tube socket?) and when i was investigating, it just slipped right out but there was a little pressure so the new one slipeed in and was secured. I'm assuming there are metal pressure plates of some sort in there that hold it in? anyway, if so, thats connected right, and for the other flying lead that goes to the push on terminal on the neck board, i cut the previous cord and left an inch of old wire, stripped it, and soldered the new flying lead to it and heat shrunk it, is that ok?
as for the black grounds, i think i know what your talking about, but i'll have to double check tomorrow, but it looks like someone had cut one of them and the other was twisted and grounded to the earth wire around the tube?.... i'll try to get some pictures up , but all my cameras are old and garbage, but i'll try