When HDMI first came out some devices did not make full use of the format, ie passing only video but not 5.1. Now, especially with the latest devices, you should most certainly not have that issue. 360 and PS3 should work just fine for both 5.1 and video to the Onkyo. As far as your Satelite receiver you would need to check the manual but my guess is if it's fairly recent you will be able to achieve what you are looking to do.
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