My experience with a couple friends' DDR machines is that they love to have "hot" power grounds (i.e. the black wire; not to be confused with earth ground). I have not yet isolated the cause, but I've been zapped several times by the stupid coin return lamp. At first, I thought they may be playing the trick of using a non-isolated monitor with isolated power supplies, resulting in a hot power ground, but the monitor appears to use a SMPS, which should isolate. I had wondered if this was a universal phenomenon with these cabinets - seems to be. I haven't yet confirmed if any other Bemani cabinets do this, though some have reported ground issues in Guitar Freaks.
Your monitor sounds like it may be a replacement. The original is a Toshiba branded monitor for Japanese cabinets; Korean and USA originated cabinets have a different monitor, different cabinet arrangement (but then you probably knew that), and don't seem to have the nasty grounding issues. Tube on these Toshiba monitors is often a Mitsubishi. Very Japanese cabinets, as you might expect. Sounds like Ken has also mostly seen replacement monitors (or perhaps non-Japanese cabinets). Many are old enough that the monitors have failed in one way or another and have been replaced at this point.
What you may have done is created a ground loop through a part of the monitor using video signal ground as the path from power common to earth. That could certainly cause various pieces of the input side of the monitor to blow up.
The Japanese DDR cabinets I've seen have all had most of the externally touchable metal surfaces (stage and coin door, mostly) meticulously tied to earth ground via dedicated lines like you'd expect. However, power common seemed to float to something that hurts, and you can pull enough current off of it to trip the breaker on the power supply box. It sounds like your machine was missing the earth grounds and had a fault somewhere from power common to those metal surfaces. I have tripped that breaker out by hooking up a o'scope ground clip to power common. This suggests it's not just a floating line bridged with a capacitive divider in a SMPS like you get if you fail to ground a PC power supply.
The only parts of the cabinet that run on AC are the power supplies, monitor, the marquee lamp, and the CCFL transformer. Everything else is DC from the big box 'o power. I guess a useful thing may be to isolate each of those (connectivity wise, not using a iso xfmr) and see which one has the hot "ground". Inspecting the wiring inside the box 'o power may also be useful. Remember that the Japanese usually lack grounded and even polarized outlets, so they don't so much care about how they wire things up. Perhaps they tied the (black) AC line to the (black) power common and called it good
