well i guess because all these tutorials say something like BE CAREFUL YOU MORON 5000000 VOLTS!!! THE TUBE WILL IMPLODE AFTER IT SHOCKED YOU TO PIECES... YOU AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY WILL DIE!!! in blincking 24 pts bold comic sans.
It's not really what you expect. For most people, it's a pretty underwhelming experience. For some, it's more than what they expected. The warnings are there for good reason, no one wants anyone on these forums to physically suffer from a mishap due to our activities.
The first time I drained a flyback, it was a rather underwhelming experience. I worked myself up, spent a lot of time preparing the ground lines. Double checked all my connections. Put one hand behind my back and using my modified screwdriver... a small pop and I was done. I'm still careful, but it's not really the nerve racking experience I thought it was.
There are other things that will make your hair stand on end though. The first time I fired up a monitor with a cracked flyback was a real interesting experience. After that, I was banned to working on my cabs in the garden shed. Not that there was any room in the house anywas.

is there a kit available for wg 19k7689's?
The Real Bob Roberts should have the kit that fits your bill. Just follow his directions.