So am I being unreasonable in expecting people do put substantial energy into researching mortgages in general and theirs in particular? When I bought my house I spent most of my free time for three weeks doing research and learning about the process and the role of various people in it. Hell if I was going to spend two hundred thousand dollars without a solid understanding of what I was getting my family into and what the risk/reward concepts were for the various mortgage types.
No you are not unreasonable. I did the same thing, and totally expect others to do the same thing. Most people are either overly coddled, or are overly lazy. They take the word of the broker because he "sounds honest".
The same people that are being foreclosed on are the same people that expect the government to take responsibility and "bail them out" for their laziness. Its just the way things are.
I also have tangent to share that was a BIG lesson in life and taught me pretty much everything I know about financial responsibility. I'll also probably get made fun of for it...

When I was a clueless 22 year old college senior, I got engaged to my wife. We got one of those invites to a "seminar" with the promise of a "free vacation". It ended up being a demo for Royal Prestige cookware, if any of you are familiar with it. Anyways, there is a reason they target newly engaged young people -- they are young, dumb, and blinded by love (which coincidentally is the same target audience of home loan brokers and Cadillac dealers nowadays). Once the night was over, we were the proud owners of $2000 worth of pots, pans, and a full set of dinnerware...and we thought we wheeled and dealed like pro's.

Then, I got to learn all about high interest loans, and compounding options. Needless to say, $2000 is NOT what I paid. As a sidenote, the stuff really is super nice stuff that even pro cooks will admit to...but everything we got is more realistically worth $400-$500. We ended up paying off the amount way early, but still paid several hundred in interest.
These salespeople are just like home loan brokers - they put you in a situation in which you think they have your best interests at heart, that this is a great deal that you "have to take now before it's gone", and they browbeat you into thinking you'll never know as much as them, so you might as well not waste your time researching anything. Sure they might have a few people actually walk away, but the odds are in their favor.
I was lucky, because we learned a VERY valuable lesson in life, we aren't in debt for our mistake, and we ended up with a really nice set of kitchenware.
