I knwo what ya mean about hearing things about different front-ends. I have been playing arounf with this stuff for about a year trying to find a Front End that I really like completely. It makes me understand why so many people start thier own. Alas, that is beyond my limits...
I have tried almost every front end that I know of. A few that I really liked certain things about were:
A-Player - had a nice look to it, pretty easy to set up. Was bummed it went away
Partyon - If I could get it to work =(
Calliopa - See Above

Lazarus looks cool, but I cant seem to get anywhere with making it work...I need to wait for a good set-up guide for that one.
ArcadeFX - If i can ever figure a way to get rid of clones and an easy way to make my own catagories and put the games in them, this will probably be the one I go with.
Linux - For some reason, I really like the look of several of the linux front-ends, maybe because they look unlike Windows. Sadly, I have no knowledge of Linux whatsoever, so that's not gonna happen.
There ar eothers I have tried as well. Emulaxian is still amazing, but way intense setup.
The search continues...