Ok guys, I need your help with a new project. I am putting together a cocktail table from these guys because I want to spend less time cutting wood

and more time playing:
http://www.arcadedepot.com/Anyways, this thing will hold a 19" monitor. I have been looking at going the ArcadeVGA route and then getting an Arcade monitor.
My questions:
1. how many of you folks went this route and would do it again?
2. what type of monitor should I get (recommendations)?
3. where is going to be the best deal? I looked at some ebay auctions and the negative feedback by some scare me, but I also don't want to spend a fortune.
4. if it's cheaper to go with a VGA type monitor, what would be a good choice in that direction and would I be as happy with that in comparison to an actual Arcade monitor?
I have an EYGO VGA 27" in my upright MAME cab and I love it so I do know that would probably work for me as well.
Sorry for the long post, I am starting to put together my list of things to buy and the Monitor and video are obviously at the head of the list.
Thanks so much for the advice!