Yeah, the reason I made the thread was to have all these things sorted out for good. Not too many cared, though. But thanks for answering.
I think combining H+V sync works but is actually not the 100% percent correct way to do it.
About pixel clock, I've had good success so far with my geForce 2 - still haven't tried it on a tv, though. And it should be easy to se the sync to negative or positive in powerstrip (actually I'm building a little circuit that will divide the sync, so I can have the tv on even during boot).
And I did get the arcadevga and I'm keeping it. But it isn't perfect for emulating other things than Mame, which is why I also want another option.