i remember them saying he was a real 'cowboy' pilot and that his crew were never happy about his stunts. cetainly was ridiculous that he was never reprimanded and yet a perfectly capable female b52 pilot was kicked out because she had an affair with a superior officer. that's bureaucracy for you. happens the world over 
No, Danny, those facts are not correct. The female pilot was having a relationship with an enlisted man. This is expressely forbidden by the Uniform Code of Military Justice, which everyone who enlists agrees to adhere to. The UCMJ also clearly states that when an inappropriate relationship is discovered, all the blame goes to the senior individual.
The pilot was informed of her situation, and was told to end the relationship. At this point no charges were filed against her.
She continued the relationship, and was given a letter of reprimand. No real action was taken there, but that letter would affect her career somewhat, but would not hold her back from anything she wanted to do.
She was then called in to see her commander who gave her a direct order to not have any contact with that person again.
She disobeyed her commander's direct order, and when she was informed that charges would be filed against her, she went crying to the media.
She was dismissed with a less-than-honorable discharge. That means that as long as she was not arrested or got into any trouble for 6 months, she could petition the local veteran's affairs office and have her discharge upgraded to Honorable.
She disobeyed a direct order from her commander; that is the only reason she was booted out.