copy everything you can off the DVD then use one of the ROM torrents to get the rest. Or if you have broadband use the torrent to get everything, once you got one full set, upgrading to the next version is not nearly as bad, but getting CDs or DVDs from one the burners is the best way to get something to start from.
Personally I think it's just hte people burning the CDs or DVDs that use cheap media and the fastest burn speed possible, so even though the DVD read back fine on the same drive it was burned with, it may not read properly on another system.