ok i scrapped everything an decided to start over from step one. I encounter a problem once again when trying to copy over the xmamerc.dist over to the home/.xmame directory. The .xmame folder shows up in the home dir as an invisible folder first of all.... is it supposed to be like that.
Are you sure that you renamed xmamerc properly?
I have never done anything with the xmamerc.dist file before, so I tried it out just now. Here's what I did:
1) I copied xmamerc.dist from my src directory to "/home/jstookey/.xmame":
$cd downloads/src/xmame-0.81.1
$cp xmamerc.dist ~/.xmame/
2) I renamed it to "xmamerc":
$cd /home/jstookey/.xmame/
$mv xmamerc.dist xmamerc
3) Edited the rompath line in xmamerc:
rompath /home/jstookey/downloads/emu/roms
4) run xmame
$cd /home/jstookey/downloads/src/xmame-0.81.1/
$./xmame.x11 dkong