To begin, THANK YOU to whomever pointed Christian from SlikStik to this thread.

The problem it would seem is the availability of stainless. Working in the same industry as they do I can definetly concur with this.
Stainless prices are thru the roof and quotes are only good for 12 hours because of the price fluctuations. Availability is obviously a problem in light of this ,so i have no doubt what he says is true.
I guess what the problem was just a basic lack of communication and active avenues to do so...
i think in light of the current Market a post to the mainpage of their website or to their forums illustrating the problems with the current stainless market and its potential effect on delivery times would go along way to preventing any future confusion with customers.Delays dont bother me,and id be willing to wait 3 months for a good quality product if necessary,but i do need to be informed of how long its going to be and certainly if there is going to be any extended delay..Disclosure is key.
When a FAQ on a vendors site says 3-5 days ,and then 20+ days pass without notice or reply, Theres obviously a potential powderkeg there.
But,thats neither her nor there and the root cause of the problem is genuinely out of their hands...and now that it has been explained to me i have a much better perspective of the situation.This being my first dealing with slikstik i had nothing to compare this transaction to.
so in closing I have my stick less than 12 hours later after our contact and they also threw me a little something for my trouble which im very gratefull for.
Thank you for the quick turnaround and getting me a suitable replacement for my unavailable stick.

problem solved, and again
thanks to all parties involved in bringing this situation to resolution.