Hi Haynor, your 5 benchmarks seem quite logical to me win7 being more modern and robust it gets the lead in all the scenarios.
The fact that MAME runs good without driver is no surprise as the video card is only used for "post process", that is stretching , bilinear filtering, HLSL,etc... The video card is not used to process graphics, that is done by the CPU only. At 640x480 there is minimal driver functionality but enough power to stretch an output. Double the res and the vc starts struggling. It's logical.
Note that ddraw is the old "legacy" video system and d3d is the modern one. All in all d3d will always work better than ddraw because it uses your video card power so much better.
The only thing that can be really extracted from your datas is that your Gforce vc works better in a marginal scenario but I can't see a performance issue. Those two are low end video cards but are quite sufficient to run MAME, the real working power in this scenario is your CPU. Your Geforce is slightly better than the other to run MAME and that's about it.
You should get a look at Aaron Giles's blog as it contains tons of technical datas regarding MAME video system, especialy one regarding the difference between ddraw and d3d, this might enlight you.