So I am getting close to the point where I will be actually building the cabinet. Wood has been ordered and paid for already, just waiting on delivery.

So I am going to be going to get some screws soon, have some questions.
I have designed the cabinet, so that all the screwing will be done from the inside, so that there won't be any visible from the outside.
I know that I need a screw that is shorter then the thickness of the woods, so that it doesn't pop through the other side, and that I should drill pilot holes first.
The material I am using is 3/4 Black Melamine for everything except the control panel. The CP will be 5/8 of plywood with a 1/8" plexi to bring the final thickness to 3/4 to match the T-Molding.
I would like to know from those who have already built cabs which screws they found worked well, and which to avoid?
Which ones tend to hold better, which ones will split the wood, that type of thing.
Also at what depth should I stop drilling the pilot holes? I don't want the screw to buldge the other side.
Also what is the average amount of screwes that will be needed for the entire cabinet?