First things first, make sure the "Sync on green" switch is OFF.
Second, this monitor is documented as accepting only negative sync. PCs by default usually output positive sync. Soft15k attempts to set the video card to use negative sync, but not all cards/drivers may obey. Check that you're using negative sync. You can check this with a multimeter from the sync output to ground on the DC setting. It should read ~5V. If it reads closer to 0V, you've got positive sync. BOTH sync signals should be negative.
If you can't convince your video card to do what you want, there's a (somewhat) straightforward circuit you can build that will autodetect and fix your sync polarities for you. I can provide details if it's needed.
Third, and most annoyingly, this monitor seems to conflate the analog video signal levels and the synchronization signal levels. Hence, it's expecting ~1V sync signals into 75 ohms on the sync inputs, but PCs output 5V TTL for sync. Try putting ~300 ohm resistors in series between the PC and the monitor on both sync lines. Leave the video lines straight-through. Try this even if you've got positive sync. The monitor may not care too much about sync polarity.