I CANNY BELIEVE IT!!!!!!!
Ive only just gone and sorted it!!!!!
I managed to get the sync sorted but the display still looked like a Nintendo Virtual Boy!!!.....

And after another half an hour of trial and error, i got this!!!.....

When me thought the pinout diagram was all to cock....well that was an understatment. This is what the pinout is for the wires i know at the moment...
NEW REVISION
OLD 
None of the pins on the diagram in the manual were correct at all...not even close. Now how can i find out what the Black, Purple, Blue and Red wires are?, and why is it sync'd for just using H sync on the grey wire. Do you think 1 of the other 4 unknown wires are the V sync?
The picture has an ever so slight 'judder' to it any ideas how to make it rock solid stable?....im fairly pleased with my self :mrgreen: i was about to lob the monitor in the skip!!!
I will take the MM to the 9din later on and get the correct pins to the correct wires
Also i need to figure out what i need to do to my SNES scart in order to get it to sync on the Scart connection, my head hurts too much atm to think about it lol