I want to have it discharged before I handle it,
as long as you don't poke around it while it's plugged in you will do fine.
any idea on what a good gauge wire would be to use from the dag strip to the screw driver?
uhm, anything... speaker wire, lamp cord, magnet wire... a chopped off piece of anything really as long as it's conductive. you don't need...like jumper cables or anything.
this is what i use....

and mainly because they are hanging on my parts board and easily accessible. the ones i have are a little small, i have to open the alligator all the way to fit it on the screwdriver but it works alright...

out in the field where i don't have them (since i can never remember to grab one and throw it in my toolbox) i usually just use a length of random wire i have in the toolbox (since i almost always have that junk in there) strip off 4 inches off one end and wrap it around the driver... unplug the ground lead off the neck card and jam the wire in there and zap it that way. in a pinch i've used an RCA patch cord.

make sure your screwdriver doesn't have any fancy coatings... just straight chrome or metal. sometimes they will paint the shaft to keep it looking good for a long time. all it is is an insulator. not what we are looking for. if it's all you got, scrape or sand it off.
we aren't grounding out any serious amperage (which does the work) it's just high voltage. walking 20 feet on vinyl floor at 15% relative humidity causes buildup of voltage up to 12 kilovolts of static electricity. you could put a 1 amp fuse on your grounding wire and it probably wouldn't blow while discharging. but put a 50 amp fuse across a 12 volt automotive battery and it will... way more amperage (since amperage does the work)
really, the high voltage warnings and all that jazz are there for while it's plugged in and operating. mostly because of things like exposed wiring terminals and fuse holders that carry 120 volts AC (or 220v AC depending where you live) at 15 amps and the potential 25,000 volts (at a few miliamps) present at the anode. I am more concerned with the 1200 volts present in some horizontal deflection circuits of the digital monitors. since their voltages are usually higher amperage.
in conclusion, i forgot where i was going with this. oh ya,
