BTW I found a local games shop (name escapes me for the moment) which stocks just about ALL the board games mentioned. I ran around excitedly in there pointing them out to my wife “this one is very good, this one won all these awards in Europe”…you get the idea. My wife was impressed, ehhh but I couldn’t take the credit – she knows where I got “the knowledge”. 
Ha, I'm glad that wasn't too much of a threadjack then!

…You have all year to encourage your kids to be smart and disciplined and talented. If what they want happens to coincide with what's good for them, great. But Christmas is a party. Don't spoil the party. You don't need an excuse like Christmas to get you kid something practical. You can do that anytime.
Christmas IS a party, well said. I usually try for gifts which represent 'good value' which does not necessarily always equate to either practical or educational. I figure Christmas is the one time when you can ask for something that during the rest of the year might be seen as not very practical.
I would say the argument goes both ways on this one. Many gifts are really both just plain enjoyable and intellectually stimulating at the same time. My parents always wanted me to read more as a kid, so they bought me a ton of comics each Christmas. No complaints here! (I got a couple valuable issues from the parents as well.) I would say that practically meets both ends. Just like a number of gift items mentioned before, though. I think that this is part of the argument that Ray was making. If your kid can enjoy a strong strategic game, why get them Monopoly, that is a 5 hour brain drain? Kids can have intellectual fun too. When I was 7, one of my favorite things to do was program little games for myself in BASIC. Yeah, they were dumb, sucky text games that made no sense, but thats still a quite a feat for a little kid.
I guess that leads to my other point is that I think it is probably a good idea to get some gifts that fuel passion in a kid. The Helicopter, guitar or electrical work station kit are all great examples of this. Most kids have some sort of passion that could carry on throughout their life, you might as well fuel that instead of loading them up with things that have no value. Not saying all gifts have to meet this criteria, but I'm sure if the passion is already there, the toy will get used. Here are a couple Ideas I can think of:
Kids set of woodworking tools/power tools (if they are old enough, get real working ones, then step them up to the real thing when they are old enough to help you remodel the basement

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Karaoke \ music toys - this is one my niece just got. You can record music on an mp3 player at take it with you listen to. Amazing stuff for even little kids these days.

lego robotics stuff

(If you can shell out the money)
