Ok, it's time for me to fess up: I have no clue what I'm doing.

I bought my Wii close to 2 years ago, and in that time, I've modded it to have a black casing, soft modded it to play DVD backups, soft modded it to play wad files, emulators, and everything else under the sun. My most recent hack was to enable Gamecube emulation, which is where I think all my probems started. Ever since I did that - I used the program that modifies my cIOS, I believe - I have been unable to play backup discs from the DVD drive, which isn't really a big deal other than my pride being hurt in knowing I screwed something up down the line. So, after thinking about the DVDs not working, I started thinking about all the different changes my poor Wii has gone through - everything from the original Twilight Hack to installing the Bannerbomb hack when I accidently updated the system menu, to the most recent Gamecube support, I've realized that I've been incredibly lucky in that I haven't bricked my Wii yet. So, here's the question(s) I have for all of you.
1) Should I start over from scratch? I'm nowhere near my console right now, so I'm not even sure that there's a "master reset" of sorts to start over.
2) If I can't start over, should I remove everything that I've installed and begin again?
3) I don't even know what IOS files are installed on my system. Hell, I don't even know what an IOS file is! I've just been told to download it and install it if I want program x to work. Same with cIOS files (if there is a difference).
4) What IOS/cIOS files should I have installed to enable me to run games from my DVD drive, Gamecube backups, homebrew, and HDD support?
5) What security features (NAND backup, etc.) would you all recommend and would they be feasible with my system?
Wii Specs (from memory)
-LU63xxx system
-Wii system menu 4.1U
Any info would be really helpful in trying to sort this all out, and who knows, I may learn something in the process.
