So does everyone think its the monitor then? 
I would definitely have the monitor looked at first.
You can't properly troubleshoot a game with monitor symptoms like that without knowing it's NOT the monitor.
Is it worth getting a guy over from 30 miles away charging $75 an hour to take a look?
I personally can't stand techs that charge such prices. 
30 miles is an every day one way drive for me, so I don't think twice about that part.
$75 an hour ...... rediculous. 

Hell, ship the chassis to me and I'll do it and make it so your total cost is HALF of that including shipping.