Its the non-forcefeedback.. and yes I got the wheel, the pc adapter and the dreamcast adapter for less then the usb adapter... all new...
but...
I got the gameport to work. I had a Gravis xterminator and plugged it in, loaded the drivers and everything is working.
So now its the pc-adapter (that aren't being sold anymore and I bought it on ebay...hopefully thats not it).
I am hoping to get the dreamcast adapter in the next few days. So I will test the wheel with that... then I will probably know whats broken...