I learned early on, you can't take anything said personally. Also, after you've been here awhile, you'll see the same questions posted over, and over, and over, and while it's understandable, many of the folks here (not me) have gone to considerable trouble to put together FAQ's, Books (Saint's Project Arcade book...

, is the best thing a newb can do for him/her self), and many walkthroughs.
Plus it's a little like an initiation (Thank you sir, may I have another).

I've been posting here for almost a year, and on another board for about the same time, and I'm still a Newb....

But the majority of these folks are great, and will be more than willing to help....after you've done a little searching of the forums, or FAQ's.
And, asking about ROMS, will get you more grief than it's worth (THAT part you gotta figure out for yourself)
Good luck, and stick around, you'll love it.