play on the server agimemnon (spelling?)   me and a couple of my friends from school started there i can help you out
You mean Agamaggan?  For those looking into starting, that's a PVP server.  You can and will be killed by members of the opposite faction, whether or not you want to.  A lot.  You'll need to group with others to keep yourself safe.  Some people enjoy that, and it certainly does give you a more realistic, if occasionally aggravating, feel.
FWIW, I'm on Feathermoon, which yes, is a Roleplay server, but honestly 4/5 folks I run into there don't do much in the way of overt roleplay.  If you do sign in there, look up Dwim (alliance-side, no horde character yet), and I'll be happy to give you a tour.