I soldered a psx pad and after testing (carefully) that all my soldering points are solid, I pour those white glue on the circuit board to help hold the wires....
I do got a pic somewhere... but its too late at night... cannot find it....
I use those white general glue that I got from home depot.
IMPORTANT !!!!... when the glues are wet, DO NOT, I REPEAT, DO NOT plug it in !!!!.... cos the wet glue might short out everything..... leave it for a day or so.... those "white elmer glue" (I think that's the name...) will dry out and becomes transparent... then you can plug and try again.... with the glue's help, I'm much more confident... (although I would still avoid yanking the wires.... of course...)
keep in mind, when I hack a sidewinder, I did not use those glues... with the testing holes, I'm quite confident with my solder... just my psx pad contacts are kinda weak cos the circuit board is quite hard to solder.....
hope it helps....
ps: if I find the pic.... maybe tmw night..... I'll post a link again if you need....