Thanks for not being
mean 
Don't worry I'm thick, I can take it...

BTW, the docs are not as self explanatory as you think. For those of us that haven't had your FE setup and haven't used it before, some things seem a bit trickier. Each FE handles inputs a little differently. So, I really appreciate the help you provide to get us going!
So far, I've been able to get #3 checked off my list. I just needed to rename the folder they are in.
2. When I go into the config menu and select keyboard, there are things like:
Joystick ID, Tolerance, Usb Fix, X-, X+, Y-, X+, etc. What are these for exactly?
I don't think I'm adding games to a Favorites list correctly. (This could very well be that my dirs.ini is not setup correctly). Please see below. I seem to always have my master list available, just not the *joy4way* and Favorites I setup.
When I press the "tagger" key, it removes the highlighted game from my master list.
When I press the "next list" key, it brings me back to the front of my master list.
From my frontend.ini: - What do these mean, and what should I change?
[Keys]
UiUp=38
uiDown=40
uiNext50=39
uiPrev50=37
uiConfig=9
uiNextPath=88
uiPreviousPath=90
uiSelect=49
uiExit=27
uiSearch=32
uiInfo=86
uiShift=67
UiPrevPath=90
UiFav=54
UiPrint=53
SuiScreenSav=00
SuiVolUp=00
SuiVolDown=00
SuiPrevLet=65
SuiNextLet=83
SuiPrevSong=00
SuiNextSong=00
SuiRandSel=00
SuiForceExit=00
SuiMute=50
UiLaunch=80
[Mouse]
ScrollAxis=1
MouseMultiplier=0.4
MouseButton0=49
MouseButton1=9
MouseButton2=27
MouseButton3=90
MouseButton4=88
MouseButton5=-1
MouseButton6=
MouseButton7=
Lightgun=1
ShowCursor=0
[Joystick]
Xaxis+=40
Xaxis-=38
Yaxis+=37
Yaxis-=39
Zaxis+=-1
Zaxis-=-1
RXaxis+=-1
RXaxis-=-1
RYaxis+=-1
RYaxis-=-1
RZaxis+=-1
RZaxis-=-1
Slider+=-1
Slider-=13
b0=49
b1=-1
b2=-1
b3=-1
--BINGO! Either that, or I was attempting to say "before" but it was too many letters to type--=-1
b5=-1
b6=-1
b7=-1
b8=-1
b9=-1
b10=-1
b11=-1
b12=-1
b13=-1
b14=-1
b15=-1
b16=
Tolerance=1
JoystickId=0
USBAdaptorFix=1
4. When I go into the config menu and click "mouse", nothing happens. This is also the case when I click "joystick" in the config menu. The only option that opens when clicked is "keyboard", and as I mentioned above, still confuses me a bit.
Does my dirs.ini look right? I don't think it's generating the 2 lists I created.
My Dirs.ini:
[startvd]
[path]
logo=Mame.png
caption=Mame
useclones=0
searchstrings:5=MAME
filters:6=*mature*;9=*Working No*;6=BIOS
[/path]
[/path]
logo=Mame.png
caption=4-way Joystick
useclones=0
searchstrings:11=*joy4way*
filters:6=*mature*;9=*Working No*;6=BIOS
[/path]
[/path]
logo=Mame.png
caption=Favorites
useclones=0
searchstrings:Favorites
filters:
[/path]
[/startvd]
5. (a new question): My attact videos now overlap the default dragon background, where as when they were just displaying snaps, were neatly hidden (the corners) behind it. Is there a way to change this back?
HC,
I realize you have been doing this for a long time and are sick of these setup questions. Just know that I do appreciate it!!