Okay. Know first that I am a total novice when it comes to anything related to wiring. I don't have a soldering iron, for example. With a little generous guidance I can get this done but at the moment I am rather confused.
Don't worry it is not that bad... All the switches do is close the electrical circuit and allow the 5v current to pass through when you push the button, thus sending a signal. That being said.....
1) Look at the end of the wire from the minipac that is supposed to connect to the switch. These are female connectors. You can buy these at any Hardware store. Buy 4 for each extra switch that does not have a dedicated spot on the minipac. They usually come in packs of 50 or 100. You need 4 because you are going to connect 1 to th NO of the 8way up, and one to the NO of the 4way up, and 1 to each of the grounds on the same switches.
2)Now look for a male connector that will slide into the connector on the minipac. It looks just like the connection on the switch. Buy 1 of them for each extra switch.
3)While at the store buy some wire to match the wire on the Minipac (looks like 16 or 18 gauge from the pics, but bring the harness to match it up.
4)If you do not already have some, buy wire strippers also.
5)Cut the wires to the desired length, and strip both ends according to the directions on the connector box( there should be a guide to tell you how much to strip)
6)Crimp a female connector on 1 end of each wire.
7) Get 2 wires with female connectors alraedy on them and twist the other ends together. Stuff this into a male connector and crimp the male connector on.

You now have your "Y" connector. Connect 1 female to 8way up, and 1 female to 4way up, then connect the male to the female of the minipac. Then just repete for each set of switches.
Hope this helps...
Sorry after all that I should have read the question better... Yes they should have those at Radio shack, but they may be cheaper at Home Depot or Lowes. They are just called crimp on connectors, you just need to match the size to the size wire you are using. Bring your harness with you and make one of the employees open a box to make sure they will fit before you buy them.
Good luck....