Had a good job, and was a really sweet guy.
People don't get it. Money means absolutely nothing... you think it does until you lose something or someone that's actually important. Sweet guys are typically sensitive guys.... it's the jerks that don't let anything phase them.
My condolences.
You mean... its the Jerks that cause most normal people to go insane. Got it.
There are many kinds of strength. Having the strength to be fair, kind, and compassionate... when it is the most challenging, is something that many are incapable of.
Being rude, mean spirited, impatient, unapologetic, seeking revenge, unable to forgive / let go... are all signs of internal weakness. Flawed characters.
Im sorry to hear of your loss... and a loss of a good man.
It can be very difficult to deal with such heavy matters of the Heart.
For me, was born into abuse. Much like any physical fighter... when one gets hit the first time, its far harder to deal with than after your body and mind have adapted and developed... from years of training and repeated trauma. The heart is much the same. The first hurt, such as a breakup... can be the most devastating. But often after like the +3rd time... there is often far less pain, less damage, and less recovery time.
Key inner knowledge helps greatly... such as found in spiritual and or self-help channels (IE: Buddhist principle: that mankinds greatest suffering comes from too much attachment (and expectation). You can enjoy the wonderful gifts of the world... but if you are too invested in them... you set yourself up for greater pain and suffering, as a result of not having / losing them. Learning to be Content, with oneself, ones life, ones job...etc... can be difficult initially... but over time... it gets easier to think and feel these ways... and life gets a little easier, and you end up enjoying and appreciating life a lot more.
Its is true, that money does not bring happiness. Many people have great wealth, and many of them are often still very unhappy internally.
Taking such a hit, of loss of family, love life, and a place to live all at once... is something Id never wish upon anyone.
Its hard enough to deal with being homeless... especially as a man. For society in general, seems to place far less value and aid / help to men. It is something we really should be striving to repair. So many Feminist Cultists, will try to paint a picture that western woman have it worse than men... when in fact, woman pretty much always have special privileges... and get more help and benefits out of life. Of course, part of this is largely mans fault... for not standing together as Brothers. Instead, often betraying justice at the bat of some pretty eyes... or some (poorly acted) crocodile tears.
It does not help... that the people whom could change many of the unfair laws, do not understand the issues... because they live in a completely different world. They are not going Homeless, let alone having 90% of their wealth and quality of life... dissolved from a Psychopathic Vampire. They also stand to lose the most, from far too aggressive child-support and other such cash cows... should they altered to reasonable / fair levels.
Hopefully the great mans soul will re-incarnate into a future where things are much better... rather than much worse.
Please do ones best, to spread positivity, compassion, love, and support. To be just, patient, open minded, and inspiring. One kind talk, even just a few choice words... can change a persons entire life for the better... and the result could effect millions of others, in a successive chain of kindness, compassion, and inspiration... leading to a far better and brighter future... as well as just a far better quality of life in the Present (the Gift).
Best Regards to all