Here's what I do often for those tricky 'blind' situations -
Download tightvnc
http://www.tightvnc.com/ and install it on the cab pc while you can see what's going on (when a common pc/lcd monitor is connected.) Install it as 'server' here. You'll be prompted to create an id and password to login to this computer.
Install tightvnc on another computer or laptop. You only need the 'viewer' option. Check that you can use tightvnc to connect to the arcade pc with that id and password. If successful, now you can now remote control the arcade pc and view the screen contents.
Once tightvnc is set up you can login, plug in the arcade monitor, and change resolutions with quickres remotely until you hopefully see something on the cab monitor.
Just a suggestion, it's been really helpful for troubleshooting crt setups when windows isn't showing/is garbled
I'd start with 320x240 and 640x480i modes if available. This assumes the monitor itself is working properly of course.